The human mind and heart though are two different factors of search engines they likewise disagree to be one even when the search is complete. We often say thinking through our mind and not through heart or vice versa…which means think realistic or think sensitive. To me it is being realistic or behaving sensitive is just a state of balancing oneself; it is the response that makes your search complete.
We all are at a state of search always, to me there is one such search that starts from a young age and goes on till existence, the search for a relationship!
This is so incomplete at all stages, as children there is a search for a group to play with, at teens a search for a best listener, touch 20 a search for a companion, at 30 a search for a soul mate….where do we stop. We constantly search for relationships, immaterial whether it is in our professional life or personal life.
The search engine is our reflection which is forever prepared in exploring relationships. The search engine plays its role in identifying the relationship it is we who categorize these relationships as supreme, close, best, acquaintances etc. I guess it is not all the time but when we are in need of a relationship, we set no boundaries of limitations in the search but when the search continues beyond there are conditions set.
I wonder is it so difficult to have unconditional relationships, is it so necessary to lay down rules to build relationships, have we reached a state where sustainability of relationships have become a challenge simply because we don’t know where to stop the search!
I believe any search will stop when you find absolute happiness about the relationships you possess, acceptance of relationships, freedom from expectations, unconditional love that can be felt, relationships that can bring a simple smile.
My search engine has begun…
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