Friday, 30 December 2016

2016… I have a special place for you!

Calling it a challenging year will summarize in a nutshell, but saying I was taught lessons will be quintessential!

The year began with my bestie and their family later leading to a fabulous 10 day trip to Istanbul with dearie, leaving Oman just the day after an explosion in ‘Ataturk’!!Most unforgettable trip it will be until the next!

With over 30 nights of mind boggling discussions on the home move, I must say it was the toughest decision after marriage! One wrong move and the game is over…this is what kept me awake before we moved location after 14 years of comfortable stay, lovable society, and supportive friends and well maintained home.

Children go forward to next levels, grown up girls and shivers in me when the little flower blossoms! And here comes reality in catching up with age and the mother in me…children and their safety tops the list, and so it did for me. Broke a leg saving my daughter’s, 6 weeks of casting, medicines, physiotherapy and realization of a lovable family.

Sweetest niece, charming nephews visit the broken leg aunt to cheer up! The fantastic 2 weeks of holiday…moments cherished for a lifetime. Challenging moments at work front with threats and moves. The boat started rocking but I stood stable… my almighty stood tall.

Daughters are a blessing especially mine, so true that! A joyous moment to see the Guru and Sishya take the stage at one time in home town with the blessings of family members. I couldn’t have asked for more.

After all the home town trips, friends gear up for a holiday trip…celebrating 18 years of togetherness, needless to say I would have been incomplete without my best half!! Thailand, a mysterious land as no one can guess all what it has to offer. One remarkable journey across the beautiful beaches of Thailand with extended family.

Festivals bring joy, celebrations at new home with contended stomachs and another year of pleasantness with friends and family, one couldn’t ask more in a foreign land.

When man proposes, God disposes!! I live to that! Decisions are firmed in choosing home to work. Indefinite ideas, suggestions from family, panic from friends on the stand!! ? Angels walk in and say I need to choose work for some more time…diversified industry, a mixed cultural environment, professional people and a new role…what more can be challenging. I must thank the supreme power who is shadowing me throughout.

Just when the year is getting over with multiple events, souls close to heart departs, endless happiness at the same time one more adds up…being home with family. A short holiday with sisters, pretty nieces and most handsome nephews. Giving the country the non-demonetization feeling with the shopping lists and eat outs. Plastic cards were heated up beyond!

Left with 2 more nights of this memorable year, a rewind was called for!

Sunday, 10 April 2016

Shower the Power!!

I wondered what is mother power 
...today as a mother for a teen and a brat I can see my instincts taking lead and my reflexes swifts!! 

We can't see our children cry or go through pain, such agreeable emotions.
We try our best to get/give them all what they want or need and convince ourselves that they are happy and that's like super parenting!! 

Until recently I realized I was fooling myself with these beliefs. I realized when my super brat had tears rolling down her sweat filled face, looking at my fractured foot and pleading me to get well soon, I realized when my most lazy teen who didn't mind springing up every time I gestured to walk...I realized my health and happiness is theirs too. 

Times have changed and it is time I/we changed. Nothing materialistic can match  mothers power..shower the power!!



Wednesday, 24 February 2016

HurtAttack!

Feeling Hurt!!seldom we realize what this means...
Today's cosmic world and thanks to technology even love is expressed with emojis! 

Lending shoulders..sounds too much these days..we just need a ear please. 

People have become plastic and feelings filmy. A casual hello and checking on how is life treating can be overwhelming in today's fast life. Marriages are sustaining because emojis take care of the relationship! 

Forwarding a good morning message and timely jokes connects people. 
Television mothers and mothers in law seem to be having a lot of time in the family. 

Feeling hurt!! 
Don't let your words bring tears whilst I hide my pain behind a smile!

Don't let your actions speak whilst i wait all day to even glimpse at you!

Don't let me lean on your shoulders whilst I only need a ear!

Don't let me feel proud whilst I think you are my pride!

Don't let the life in me die whilst I live for you!